There is an opinion that growing an egoist is the most chances in a family with one child. It is believed that the only child in the family gets all the love and affection of parents, all toys and clothes also belong only to him. In the aggregate of all of the above, the child has all the necessary makings in order to grow up an egoist. How not to make mistakes?
First, parents should clearly understand that do not unnecessarily pamper the child. Often, adults pamper their baby, referring to excuses that the child is long -awaited, then there is usually a monologue about the great love and uniqueness of their child, and then discussions about the necessary happy childhood of the child. In such an ardent desire to please the baby, his parents really have a chance not so much to bring benefits as harm to his child.
The baby must be educated both with love and respect for himself and to others. To begin with, these others are his family. The child should be interested in the life of other family members, sincerely worry and sympathize if one of his relatives is sick. A separate topic is the ability to share. It is desirable to share all the sweets and other desired things for the child between all family members equally. Try to teach your child to share toys in the yard, in kindergarten. Children rarely love to share, it is better to offer them an option to change them for a short while.
The child needs friends and lively communication besides his relatives and friends. Friendship of peers of peers is the best, so -called school of life, with their small rules and charters. Friendship education teaches to share, empathize, help and give way to others.
So that the child does not grow up with an egoist, he needs to think and cares about who, besides himself. Awakening such feelings, perfectly contributes to the establishment of pets. If the baby asks to get a pet, you should meet him, first explaining that the pet is not a toy, but a friend whom he will have to care. If he is not yet ready to take care of someone or, it is better to buy a monster high or another toy dolls until he matures for such a solution and grows up.
Teach your child to appreciate and respect relatives and friends, be proud of a strong and friendly family. Take care and help grandmothers, brothers and sisters, a child with such concepts cannot grow up an egoist.
In raising a child, it is important to observe a balance between boundless love and the norms of education, because grow a worthy, educated person, support and hope in the future, the dream of any parents.
