What people do we feel like ourselves? Probably with a friend, with mom or sister. But even if our mothers are universal, they will not replace a man for us anyway. Then we begin to look for our life partner. And when we find, certain changes take place, you try to seem better. It turns out that you are you, and when a man is with you, you start playing. You become more educated, more beautiful and smarter. Your chosen one sees in you a certain ideal woman. It becomes simple and easy with you. But in fact, you are not real with him, but somewhere with friends at a party or with colleagues. And men also behave. They become polite, fierce and “turn on” a delicate voice. The most important thing is to remain itself, after a painting in the registry office.
All that we had not allowed ourselves before with a “easy” relationship begins to open up in family life and becomes the norm. When a man and a woman manifest themselves in everyday life, as they behaved, living on their own, a conflict. Life begins so much that it extinguishes all that passion that was inherent in a couple long before the start of family life.
If we had not hid our true face before the wedding, then there would be less unhappy novels and divorces. But nature has created a tough selection. The strongest survive, and so this masquerade continues the procession by people.
