In every family, parents dream of enjoying their child’s successes. They want to see him beautiful, smart, healthy and achieved success in their activities. But not everyone can boast of the achievements of their child. Why are obedient and educated children turn into doubles? This question faces many parents, which means you need to understand the reasons. There is a stereotype in society that hooligan and noisy guys are doubles, and quiet and calm classmates are excellent students. This opinion is a delusion. It is not always an excellent student that is a child who does not take part in the life of the class, and sits quietly at a break. Due to their modesty, such children often cannot find a common language with the teacher and poorly learn the material received. As a result, they have poor grades. And not always an indicator of poor performance of the relaxed behavior of the guys who feel at school, as at home.
Low grades mainly arise due to frequent missiles of classes. This happens with children who have poor health.
After conducting research, scientists have found that active and noisy primary school students show the best results in the learning process than their calm peers. This indicator has been tracked for several years. Psychologists presented the results of the examination of 4100 children (from four to fourteen). The process took into account their school successes and the psychological state. As a result, it turned out that contrary to public opinion, shy and calm children study much worse. Children’s psychologists recommend that parents pay attention to the psychological preparedness of their child to life at school. It must be taught: to resolve conflicts arising with peers; communicate and make friends with the guys; Do not be afraid of other guys and teachers. This knowledge for successful study is much more important than his ability to read and write.
Doctors and teachers of Russia indicate that quick fatigue, and as a result, are poor assessments, this is a common problem of children who receive little attention and care from their parents. In such a situation, you need to adopt one advice – communicate with your child, and spend more time together. Your attention and warmth will give him a sense of inner comfort and this will arouse in him the desire to make his parents a pleasant surprise in the form of good performance in school.
