When I hear the phrase “marital duty”, I can’t understand who, to whom and what should? If we talk about sexual relations with my husband, then personally in this regard I have equality and mutual understanding. I will not draw idealistic paintings, because everything happens. We just try to enjoy love making, and not do it like a punishment. And I’ll tell you – it turns out. I guess I was lucky, I don’t know. Perhaps it all depends on the man. My husband does not force me if I don’t want intimacy at the moment. And no debt obligations are discussed. How can this be divided? Understands when I explain why not today. Because he knows, if not today, then tomorrow I will say “yes!”. After all, if you do not give your husband pleasure itself, then another can do it for you. But no need to do all the whims. You never know what a violent fantasy will be expensive. He must respect you and your opinion.
By the way, not always and men want to make love. They also have a “headache”, “your stomach whines”. And no one makes a tragedy out of this.
But how beautiful the sensations and the enjoy are beautiful, if everything is passing, when we both wish.
Probably, you still need to fully maintain a state of love in yourself. And the main thing is to always remain desirable for the second half, then there will be no question of any “duty”.
